As a parent living with Myasthenia Gravis, Sylwia often felt powerless and heavily dependent on others, particularly during the years it took to receive a diagnosis. Yet, she transformed those hardships into a source of strength.
For Laura, growing up with a mother battling MG was deeply unsettling. She recalls feeling helpless from the beginning, explaining, “As a child, I couldn’t do anything to help my mother.” Watching her confined to bed, unable to move, felt like the end of the world, a paralysing experience no child should face without support.
Sylwia believes that parents living with this illness should not avoid difficult conversations . “If we accept the illness and how it affects our lives,” she explains, “it will be easier for us to fulfil our role as a parent and any other role.” Openly discussing what their body is going through helps children confront the illness directly. Children are incredibly perceptive and can sense dishonesty. Instead, parents should tailor the information to their child’s age, ensuring it is understandable without being overwhelming.
Living with Myasthenia Gravis requires constant adjustments. Sylwia stresses the importance of acceptance, both for patients and caregivers. Parents living with the disease must acknowledge their limits. Being present for every moment isn’t always possible, and that’s okay. What matters is finding MG-friendly ways to connect, like reading, cuddling, or simply talking. It’s about showing up in meaningful ways, even when circumstances change.
Laura believes that, above all, children must remember that parents are people too. “Our parents are only human, and they also happen to be patients,” she explains. “We need to be extra understanding, and in general, we should be more empathetic and not only think about ourselves.” Balancing life with a chronic illness like Myasthenia Gravis, especially one with invisible symptoms, is no small feat. Empathy and understanding make all the difference, and small gestures, like offering to carry a bag or helping around the house, can go a long way.
Together, we can build a world where patients and caregivers alike feel seen, supported, and empowered. It starts with empathy, understanding, and the simple act of showing up.
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EU-UNB-25-00026 – Date of preparation: May 2025